Planning a wedding is difficult, stressful, expensive, memorable, and worth it. People start treating you differently. Everyone will give you advice and will start talking about pregnancy. There are also a ton of unexpected fees. According to Business Insider, "It wasn't until I began venue shopping that I realized that many venues (at least in New York) charge a site fee on top of their per-person fee. In other words, they charge, say, $150 per person..." Remember to be mindful when planning a wedding.