VIDEO : Katie Holmes Would 'Choose Her Family Over' Jamie Foxx Any Day

As they allow the worst-kept A-list secret to slip out more and more, Jamie Foxx and Katie Holmes , who've been secretly dating for 4 years, are making their undercover dates a thing of the past. Just don?t expect Holmes to drop everything for her beau. Instead of jetting to Singapore for New Year?s, where Foxx was working, Holmes flew to Park City, Utah, for a ski trip with her 11-year-old daughter, Suri Cruise. A Holmes Insdider says, ?She?s an amazing mom.