Patton Oswalt took to Facebook to share his state of mind on the one-year anniversary of his wife Michelle McNamara?s death. ?It?s awful, but it?s not fatal,? the comedian wrote on his page Friday, before detailing the very ordinary day before discovering McNamara had died. McNamara, a true-crime writer, died at age 46 in the couple?s Los Angeles home in April 2016.