Blair Getz Mezibov/Out Colton Haynes has had his fair share of ups and downs. Despite finding incredible success thanks to roles on Teen Wolf and Arrow , Haynes has experienced some very dark times?in the spotlight and out of it. Growing up in Kansas, Haynes tells OUT magazine that it was a place where "you couldn't be gay," which led the star to not only conceal his sexuality but also develop severe anxiety about his secret. When he was 14 he decided to come out, but it didn't go well.