VIDEO : Khloe Kardashian, Lamar Odom Not Ready for Divorce ... The Door's Open a Crack

Khloe Kardashian and Lamar Odom are NOT ready to divorce ... in fact, they're secretly talking. Sources connected to both Khloe and Lamar tell TMZ, the 2 of them are not romantic and are not talking reconciliation, but they don't want to close the door on the marriage either. The Lamar sources say she's told him he has to make some sort of "grand gesture" before they can go the next step, and so far he's not willing to do it.??