Damon Dash just lost custody of the daughters he shares with ex-wife and designer Rachel Roy , and it's probably all news to him ... since he didn't even show up for the hearing. Roy just got sole legal and physical custody of 15-year-old Ava and 6-year-old Tallulah . Dash also wanted full custody. Dash and Roy both claimed the other was unfit to parent. He claimed she drove drunk with one of the girls, and threatened to cut him with a knife.